Monday, January 17, 2011

The First few months of marriage...

Ok... Bobby and I have been married for six months and they have been six wonderful months. They have also been very challenging. We dated for seven years before we got married so we both knew we were ready to get married, but living together is a big adjustment. Bobby plays a video game called Call of Duty which most guys play, but I think Bobby plays way to much. This is something I am having to get use to. I of course can not make him stop playing because that would not be fair.  He plays in our living room so this means when he plays I either have to watch him or go in our bedroom to watch TV. We are still working on this issue :) I am also a tad bit OCD. I tend to go right behind Bobby and pick up his mess before he even has a chance to. During these first few months of marriage I am learning that I am going to have to let the little things go. Like getting ill when Bobby does not pull the shower curtain closed,  or when he doesn't put his clothes in the hamper but instead throws them infront of it.. I can easy do go behind him and fix these things! I can tell he tries to do things like I would  and that is huge for him because he lived at home before we got married  and his mother did it all for him.  Like I said these first few months of marriage have been GREAT but it is all just a big adjustment. Bobby and I our loving every min of married life. Maybe he will start to pick up some of my OCD habits...... :)